about

* consent culture – embodied spirituality – creative imagery *

I am a writer and teacher who lives with my family on Catawba lands in what is now part of the southeastern United States. My work brings together my research interests of gender, sexuality, consent, relationships, trauma, healing, spirituality, theology, ritual, social justice, and energy work. I appreciate working within each of these foci; the areas of overlap are where my heart opens most and loving brilliance pours out.

consent culture and sexuality

For the past 9 years, I’ve worked in rape crisis – answering hotlines, providing in-person hospital and police accompaniment, and facilitating support groups to help survivors reconnect with their bodies and explore safe, consensual, healthy sexuality after sexual assault or childhood sexual abuse. Before that, I worked as a childbirth educator and doula, and I currently work in sexual violence policy, prevention, and response at the statewide level. I enjoy working with people to tease out and build upon the areas they can find safety in their bodies in ways that allow newly discovered and developed communication strengths, boundary-setting, and experiences of sensual pleasure to radiate outward to other areas of life and sexuality. I also coach parents on how to talk about sexuality in open, candid, and healthy ways with their children; facilitate discussions about gender identity and sexual orientation with children; and work with parents to foster trust and security for their gender non-conforming children.

embodied spirituality

My spiritual path is shaped by a wide variety of experiences – from living in an Episcopalian convent to studying neo-Druidic women’s mysteries, from conversations with rivers to ecstatic ritual, and from meditation and guided imagery to embodied approaches that include dance, chanting, and elaborate liturgy. I’ve worked in full-time ministry in a church that embraced mind-action philosophies, and left after feeling spirit’s sweet pull into nuance, deeper into the mystery. I am a mystic and a theologian, a heart-follower and an academic, a theorist and an activist, and I find the tension between these seeming opposites to be the place where my most powerful magic happens, my keenest insights come, and my greatest growth emerges. I enjoy facilitating rites of passage, holding space for birth and death, tending grief, sharing joy, and performing weddings, baby blessing and coming of age ceremonies, and funerals. I read Tarot, do energy work, hoop dance, ecstatic dance, and teach and lead guided imagery sessions. I enjoy building community as well as working with people to develop personal rituals for growth, self-knowledge, and healing.

creative imagery

Since the mid-1990s I have practiced guided imagery and healing through stories as tools for exploring the inner landscape and tapping into deeper knowing. I’ve been leading public guided visualizations since 1998, both in explicitly spiritual settings as well as secular personal growth and healing settings. I’ve taught a method that blends imagery and movement at festivals and studios since 2010, and have developed a five week class series to teach creative visualization to children. I have written a book for children, parents, and teachers to share fun, simple, healing imagery for children, which should be available early in 2019, and my visualizations are available for purchase online.